Untying the Rope of Lies

Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist…Ephesians 6:13-14

I remember the first time I read the above verses. I sat on an old red velvet cushioned wooden pew at my neighbor’s church during Vacation Bible School. Attentive, I watched as other children displayed decorative cardboard garments to demonstrate the armor of God. When explaining truth, the teacher told us that it meant to never lie and to also know that God’s word is true. And to be honest, I didn’t give it much more thought.

However, this past year, the pursuit of truth has become a passion of mine. After years of believing lies about myself and my value to God, I emerged from a suffocating and grimy pit of rubbish. Brushing off the debris and wiping the mud from my eyes, I was ready to hear, see, and embrace the truth about God’s love for me.

The lies I fell for were numerous, but the one that taunted me on a daily basis was that I was a loser. I dubbed myself a “loser wife,” “loser mommy,” “loser housekeeper,” and a “loser Christian.” I also believed that I had somehow been created deficient.

I believed that God loved me as a child loves her stick figure drawings, but that His formal gallery showcased far superior work. Although the rare beauty of truth was gifted to me, I viewed myself an unworthy owner. So I took it, yet instead of wearing it, I hid it in a closet.

Instead of adorning myself with the beautiful jeweled belt God gave to me, I chose to wear a dowdy rope around my waist. A rope made of old lies forged in the pit of Hell, was my accessory. When I think about those images, I close my eyes, hang my head, and inhale a deep breath of air.

I knew the One who is the truth. Yet, until I understood the truth about who I was in Him, my witness to others was tainted. That is why truth is key to win the every day battles we face. We are slammed on an every day basis too aren’t we? The world tells us that outward beauty is everything, that intelligence depends on degrees and career placement, and that wealth is strictly material. We’re told that we need to do more, buy more, and earn more. But those are lies.

Here is some truth from the Book of Truth …

You are loved, accepted, and treasured by the most powerful being in the universe. You were bought by the blood of Christ, and that’s a currency that never drops in value. You were not meant to wallow in false guilt, regret, or agonizing wounds of the past. Instead, you were created to serve the Alpha and Omega, the King of Kings and Lord of Lords. There is no greater calling.

1) What lies do you believe about yourself?
2) What are some practical ways to combat these lies?

Here are a few verses to look up that may help you understand your identity in Christ.
John 1:12, 1 Cor. 6:19, 20, Col.2:10, and Matt. 5:13-14.

18 Responses to Untying the Rope of Lies
  1. Heather
    June 4, 2008 | 8:18 am

    Great article … I really needed to read this today — thanks!

  2. Adventures In Babywearing
    June 4, 2008 | 10:26 am

    This is so true- I see this so much in my own life and with my friends… some of those that are hurting so much are actually hurting because of what they believe about themselves, and not even what others think or do. When, yes, we will never be worthy- He STILL loves us. Even then. His love is amazing.

    Steph

  3. Nadine
    June 4, 2008 | 11:11 am

    Angela –

    This really hit home – hard. It is something that I’ve struggled with my entire adult life. How did you make the change in thinking? I find it so hard to believe that God crated me as one of his jewels. My husband gets frustrated and asks, “Do you believe the Bible is the truth?” “Yes”, “Then why can’t you belive that God created you as His perfect one?”

    It makes me frustrated and sad that I can believe the garbage and not His words. *Sigh* – any words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated.

  4. Genny
    June 4, 2008 | 12:19 pm

    Angela,
    What a powerful article. I love how you said, “There is no greater calling.” I really enjoyed reading this, and I think your sharing will touch many hearts. It did mine.

  5. Sisterlisa
    June 4, 2008 | 12:47 pm

    Angela, That was well written, good analogy. Thank you. In years past the lies I believed was that I needed to get a job and make money. I’m so glad and happy that God has revealed to me His plan for the wife and mother to be with her family. That is my greatest ministry and career. I now focus on teaching that to my daughters as well. The world lies to us about what a woman’s purpose is, when all along God wrote it in His book to begin with.

  6. Susan (5 Minutes for Mom)
    June 4, 2008 | 1:00 pm

    Wow Angela! That was powerful. Thank you so very much for sharing this with us.

    I can really relate to the ‘loser’ lies. I constantly struggle with feeling like a ‘loser Christian’ and a ‘loser Homemaker’ etc. I find it quite a self-fulfilling thing… I tell myself I’m a ‘loser Christian’ b/c I don’t make time to read my Bible and I’ll never be as good of a Christian as everyone else etc. And so then it’s like it re-enforces that and I continue to not read my Bible etc.

    I’m so thankful for you and all the other wonderful writers who are taking the time to share here on Faith Lifts and on other Christian blogs. For people like me that somehow have a tough time physically picking up their Bible (for whatever reason) it’s wonderful that we can still read God’s word and be inspired online.

    Thank you!

  7. Gina
    June 4, 2008 | 2:54 pm

    Amen, Angela. Much needed word for all of us!

  8. Staci
    June 4, 2008 | 9:29 pm

    Angela, this was so beautiful and so very true! Some of these very thoughts have been on my mind lately. Thank you for voicing what so many of us feel.

    -Staci

  9. Mocha with Linda
    June 4, 2008 | 9:49 pm

    What a great devotional, Angela. I think many of us as women struggle with this. Thanks for these encouraging and TRUE words!

  10. Xandra
    June 4, 2008 | 10:11 pm

    Wow! You hit it out of the park with your first devotional! I love the analogy of the jeweled belt and the dirty rope of lies. Great stuff…thanks for sharing!

    Xandra

  11. Donna Kay
    June 4, 2008 | 10:37 pm

    WOW – this is something I needed to read today. Especially after the post on my blog just now. I am really beating myself up today – working Mommy guilt has kicked in high gear this week for me. This was a great reality check for me. Thanks!

  12. Alana
    June 4, 2008 | 11:43 pm

    I’ve been on this journey as well. The “loser” lies are a powerful tool the devil uses and he knows it works really well on me. Great job on your devo!

  13. Karen
    June 5, 2008 | 8:52 am

    Our Enemy is full of lies and often gets us to believe he’s feeding us truth. Yuck!
    Telling ourselves the Truth – soaking in God’s Word – is soooo much better.
    Ditto the previous comments, Angela. God is using you to speak Truth. Praise Him!!!

  14. gretchen
    June 5, 2008 | 12:06 pm

    Ooof…you’re stepping on my mud, Angela.

    What an amazing post. You and I have been fighting the exact same lies. While I’m not happy about that, I’m sure glad to be in community with someone who gets it. And someone who is choosing to wipe the mud away and triumph in Christ a day at a time.

    Beautifully written. xxxooogretchen

  15. Amanda
    June 5, 2008 | 7:13 pm

    I usually think of my self as ‘on fire’ for the Lord… praying and evangelizing and seeking Him everyday…
    But today I suddenly ahd the thought… am I really that special? Does He really love me that much?
    I think you answered that questions pretty well.
    Thank you-and God bless-
    Amanda

  16. Elisa
    June 6, 2008 | 8:17 am

    Angela, this is fantastic — both in the content and transparency. Thanks so much for sharing this way and reminding me, again, about the belt of truth. I’ve had a similar journey, and I’m finding that that roped belt was quite comfortable to wear and I often try to put it back on! Ugh!

    Blessings, my friend,
    Elisa

  17. Carol
    June 6, 2008 | 10:11 am

    This was great!! Thank you!

  18. mom after truth
    June 8, 2008 | 7:43 pm

    That’s a great reminder. Are you familiar with The Truth Project? It’s done by Focus on the Family. Great truths to remember.