Let It Spill

by Mandy


I knew the message would be congenial and kind, encouraging even.

I knew it was coming, as she had requested my email address.

And yet, the flurries in my stomach were mixed: part jitters, part curiosity…

What did she have to tell me, this teen minister from my youth?

I clicked on her name in my inbox.

I want you to know I love you. And I am on your side. ALWAYS.

They were simple words. Profound words.

And they were simply profound.

Each sentence preceding these concluding words in the email surrounded my tender heart with unconditional love and a growing awe that here, before my eyes, were the very sentiments I’d longed to hear. For years.

I understood instantly what she meant. In the personal battle I’m fighting–claiming freedom and healing of my childhood wounds, she affirmed my worth and dignity. In circumstances which have divided families and loyalties, my healing required the voice that asserted:

I’m not concerned about fixing everyone. I hear you, and I’m here to stand up for you.

There is a time for forgiveness of past wrongs, extending grace, and sometimes reconciliation. And I am mostly there.

There is a time for receiving the love of God through others to grow in love for both. That’s what I desperately needed.

There is a time for following the promptings of the Spirit, fortified by the grace the Father gives. That is what she did.

Fortified by grace, she stepped out in faith and wrote to me.

With the healing words I needed to hear.

When I needed to hear them.

I don’t know if the words came easily to her or if they were hard to write. I just know she wrote them.

And I know the eternal impact they’ve made.

I love that she was so steeped in the Spirit that she heard His prompting.

That she was so filled with His love that she spilled it all over me.

And isn’t that something we all could do? Spare a few heartfelt words, or a smile, or a listening ear?

Let someone else know: I see you. You matter.

I love you.

Spill a little truth and light into their world?

…be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble. –1 Peter 3:8


Has someone reached out to you recently? How have you reached out to others?


Email Author    |    Website About Mandy

Mandy Mianecki is a wife and mom of 4. She is passionate about encouraging others in their healing journeys from brokenness to wholeness; in uncovering their unique kind of God-breathed brilliance; and in living in the freedom won by Christ. When she’s not writing, Mandy is dreaming God-sized dreams, which usually involve making art, wearing turquoise and eyeing a nearby jar of Nutella. In addition to being a contributing writer at 5MinutesforFaith.com and God-sized Dreams, Mandy blogs at Hearts Undaunted . You can also connect with her on Facebook and Twitter.

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{ 5 comments… read them below or add one }

1 Missy June 27, 2013 at 6:30 am

“Receiving the love of God through others” is one of the most beautiful blessings I think we experience as followers of Christ- especially in those dark times. I’m so glad this friend reached out to you and hugged your heart, Mandy.


2 Mandy June 27, 2013 at 6:37 am

Oh, I agree! They are life-changing blessings. Thank you, Missy!


3 Nikki June 27, 2013 at 11:34 am

Oh my heart! Love this…almost as much as I love you:)
Thank you for reminding me to reach, no matter how small. God can do big things with my meager attempts {HUGS}


4 Mandy June 27, 2013 at 1:54 pm

I love you right back! Your “meager” attempts are mighty to me:) {HUGS}


5 Deb July 1, 2013 at 3:30 pm

I love this Mandy! We have no idea how our simple gestures can impact another. Sometimes we shrug off the Spirit’s nudges thinking they’re unimportant, but to someone who’s hurting even the smallest kindness can give hope and encouragement. Thanks for saying this so beautifully.


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